Pregnancy
is often a pleasant surprise. Of course, there are times that pregnancy
can come as a shock. Although most unplanned pregnancies are still
pleasant surprises, it doesn’t make the situation much easier. There are
steps you can take to make an unplanned pregnancy a pleasant
experience.
First, speak with a friend or family member you can trust. You’ll need
someone who will be supportive and not condescending. It’s already an
emotional time for you. The last thing you need is the added stress of
defending the pregnancy.
Second, once you’re past the initial stages of finding out about your
pregnancy, prepare yourself for the varying responses of other people.
You may get receptions that are congratulatory, and you may get some who
are judgmental. Be prepared for both. Also remember that what’s done is
done. It’s not constructive to look back in regret, anger, or despair.
It is better to look forward and to make the best of the surprise
situation.
Third, don’t feel as if you’re alone. Unplanned pregnancies happen to
many people. There are support groups both online and offline available
to help you through this confusing time in your life. Seek their
counsel. Don’t be afraid to voice your own fears and concerns. You may
find the sessions very therapeutic.
Fourth, prepare to inform the baby’s father. Obviously it won’t be easy,
and you’ll get a varying range of responses from excitement to denial.
Hopefully, the father will be supportive and can help you through the
pregnancy.
Fifth, be aware that your body is in a different state. Because you’re
now pregnant, your body is flooded with hormones and is transforming
every day. Take this into account when talking with people and
prioritizing your life.
Give
your partner respect, and expect it in return. How hard is it to use
the same courtesy you used before you were married? These simple
everyday courtesies should always be used when asking for anything from
your partner.
“Please.” How hard would it have been to say, honey, I m so tired, can you please get me a soda? “Thank You.”
Once they bring it to you, a simple thanks or thank you will let them know you appreciate them. And . . . “You’re welcome.”
when your partner says thank you. It is very simple to say your welcome back. Your
life's partner deserves to be treated with respect. You deserve to be
treated with respect. These common courtesy words never go out of style.
Use them every day and you will notice a lasting effect on your
relationship. Don't neglect your partner. You must give your
partner your time and attention if you expect your relationship to grow
and flourish. Married couples need constant reassurance from each other.
Make an effort to accommodate your partner’s emotional and physical
needs. Notice things your partner does for you.
If your partner does something around the house that you normally have to do then be
sure to make a big deal about it. Say, thank you so much for doing
that. I appreciate it so much. And give them a big hug and kiss. Spend quality time together
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