I (F19) have two best friends Jenna (F19) and Maddie (F18) we’ve been very close since last year. 2 weeks ago we were about to go to our friend Jake’s for wasted wednesday and started drinking. we ate and got back to the room before we were going to his and we’re pretty drunk by then. Jenna begins telling me things she feels she couldn’t share until then including that I talk a lot, make them feel bad about like boys (since I am a lesbian), and never listen. There was a lot more but I started crying really hard and had to leave. A few days before that Jenna had been in fights with her family and her mom always leaves when they’re hard and it hurt her that I left. To me, I had to leave because I was browning out as they spoke to me and I was sobbing. I went to my car and just cried for hours about what they were saying and the fact that they waited so long to tell me when I am a very open person. Jenna had an asthma attack that night because once I left they continued to complain about me which caused Maddie to cry a lot and they were both crying. A few days later me and Maddie talked about it and we cleared the air for each other but me and Jenna never spoke and we needed to speak the most. A week passes where I am working 40 hours on top of full time classes and I am okay not talking to Jenna because of how stressed I am. Flash forward to this last weekend, we are planning to go out to this house party and we’re all drinking and having fun. The party was more of a social / kickback which we were fine with. I saw my friend Jack (who had a history with Maddie) and started talking to him since my friends left me together. We had a good conversation and then he weirdly lays down on my lap. I said it was fine because I honestly didn’t care. I look up and Maddie has the death stare on me. She comes up and says “do we have something to talk about?” and I said no. Eventually we end up outside and I am explaining things when both Jenna and Maddie start screaming at me. Then we’re all screaming and Jenna starts going off about other things unrelated to the night which still hurt my feelings when I think about that night even though I can’t remember it very well. Our driver was using my car so I said if they keep talking to me like that they can walk home. Eventually me and Maddie talk on the couch and decide everything is good between us. We end up leaving and Jenna starts walking home despite me saying everyone can fit in the car. I felt bad but I wasn’t going to try to convince them to get in the car if they wouldn’t. Maddie followed her which kind of hurt my feelings but I understand she might’ve wanted to make sure she was safe. For context, the house was not a far walk from where we live. Next day I decided to go out with someone else and I had a great time and was texting Maddie updates all night and she was answering positively. The next day she was coming back from her family’s house and I told her to let me know when she is back. I texted Jenna and said that I don’t think anything will be resolved between us since we’re both going through things and the only time Jenna will talk to me is when we’re drunk. Jenna and I came to an understanding. that right now isn’t a good time for us to be friends. Maddie says she was on her way back. I checked her location to see how close she was and she was at Jenna’s room. I am sure that Jenna was very sad and probably needed support but it really hurt that she chose Jenna twice. Plus, Maddie was back and she didn’t text me to let me know. Am I wrong for letting Jenna go?
TL;DR While drunk my two best friends unloaded a lot of resentments against me and I decided to end the relationship with one of them and I might just have lost both of my friends. Am I in the wrong?
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